O Little Romeo Blog, today posted a humorous list listing 10 reasons not to date someone closeted gay.
Anyone who has been through this situation knows how difficult it is. Those who haven't been through it, here is the list so as not to be caught off guard:
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1 – You will never be able to be introduced to his parents as a boyfriend, and if you are effeminate your chances are zero. To your friends you will always be the friend from college, the course, school, work, and never the boyfriend he is/is in love with.
2 – You cannot demand that he not kiss others girls to disguise to his friends that he is straight, since he needs to "maintain an image" to avoid suffering prejudice. He's a male goat, but he's scared to death of what others will think, especially if it's that little friend who calls him "faggot" in jest.
3 – You will never be able to walk holding hands with him on the street, much less give him a kiss or hold his hand in the movie theater, that is if he takes you to the movies. Dates are limited to late nights or when there is no one at your house or his, but if he is effeminate you may not even date.
4 – If you dream that he will save your contact with the name "bae", "mor", "moli" and those cute and sweet names, take the horse out of the rain. This will hurt the masculinity his and his mother, father, friend, sister, aunt, niece can see it, the most plausible excuse is this.
5 – You won't be able to take him home, but not because of the prejudice of your family, but because he thinks that others "will think" that he is gay because he is at your house. Neighbors can comment, someone can see. Because a gay you can't just be friends with a straight guy without ulterior motives.
6 – That cute couple photo on Instagram of the two of you waking up on a Sunday, or in that Japanese restaurant you love will never exist. It's like shooting a guy in the chest, telling everyone that he's not that masculine, as if being gay disqualifies him.
7 – If his friends make fun of you for being gay, for your mannerisms, or simply for being idiots, the probability of your "boyfriend" helping to make fun of you is much greater so that he can maintain the pose of "Alpha male".
8 – The dream of a ring on your finger will never come true. He cannot use, his friends and his family They will speculate, and he doesn't have a girlfriend, but a boyfriend. And out of shame and fear he will not accept using it.
9 – The relationship will not last long because if you love and value yourself you will realize that you need and deserve someone better and who knows what they want.
10 – If you are needy, don't even invest in this "relationship", you won't be able to see each other very often, mainly because you can't go to each other's houses and public places are quite dangerous, you won't always have money for a motel and if you have a lot You probably can't go because someone might see.
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