When you talk about fetishes, the first thing that comes to mind are poor leathers. If you liked a little extra leather, the poor bilú leather is already condemned to be identified as *the* freak of the place. Another tribe that is glued to the leathers are the Bears. Not that it's mandatory, but what's leather and bear at the same time... But, leather in this tropical country?
Complicated, I would say… Imagine a poor thing in a leather and bear bilú in Fortaleza in the middle of summer. You can go out dressed in pants, jacket, boots and all that fur to increase the heat even more. It becomes a walking sauna. The queer leaves the house weighing 150kg and comes back thinner than Kate Moss. Sauna for sauna... better the one with tiles where people play with everything. Is a sauna a fetish? It could also be depending on what's in the bilú's head that goes in there to satisfy itself. It's not just that dark environment, the half-naked bodies, the back and forth looking for someone to relieve their organic fluids that can excite, but the power relationship that can happen – for example – negotiating the price with the sauna attendant. G-zuz from heaven!! There's a friend of mine who goes to the sauna just to negotiate the price of the meal. She spends hours and hours with all the micheteiras parading here and there and she knows that what she has and what they want is din-din and nothing more. So... to get this din-din out of her bag, my loverrrr. And that alone was enough for her. It's domination that matters. Then I wonder. You need leather, a whip, a fur collar, etc. to create a fetish? NO!! It needs imagination.
If you can only imagine a leather outfit, a whip, a game between doctor and nurse, or who knows… the maid and the boss… oops! Look at me here!! Come on, love… let’s put that fertile imagination of yours to work. I promise I won't tell anyone anything. How about something… produce-fruit-farm? For God's sake, no, watermelon now belongs to straight people's imagination and turns my poor stomach just by seeing one at the market. Eggplant man, don't even tell me that purple bags are a thing from the Collor era and I'll end up impeaching you, huh bilú.
How about sex with dwarfs? It's... like an orgy with 7 dwarfs and you as Snow White in the middle. Quequié bixa! Did you find it bizarre? Wait for the transvestite witch to arrive wanting to stick the apple inside the edizon. Are you still waiting for Prince Charming and bla bla bla to be happily ever after in the boredom of the Castle? You don't have any fantasies about palace guards in uniform, do you? Like a quickie in the throne room while the prince went for a ride on his white horse? Well... if you're the jealous type... you'll know what he does with that horse's big dick in the middle of the forest. After all, their relationship is much older and you have to give some discount.
In this game alone, we had examples of Nanophilia (the dwarfs), Autogynephilia (the transvestite and you as a crossdresser like Snow White), Hypophilia (the prince burning bangú with his horse) Agoraphilia (sex in public places – the throne room ) and Agrophilia (sex in the woods). But I couldn't even find the name of the kink for uniform, for fairy tales, for fruit and so on...
Are you interested in memorizing the list, or finding out if your kink has already been classified? I prefer to spend my time having fun. And the trend of showing off armpits among orkut bilús? Suddenly, just like that, it became fashionable. Then the monkey to not be left out started doing it too without knowing why. For bilús with an armpit fetish it was glory, did they never manage to collect so many armpit photos? But it was also disappointing because a super specific fetish was diluted among the masses. Then those who really have the fetish have to wait for the fad to pass, to start having a relationship with those who really like a good armpit. By the way… go to suvacosarmpits.blogspot.com.
The terms getting out of the monotony, domination, fantasy, spicing up the relationship, always accompany the word fetish, whose classification covers two large groups: those related to objects (leather, high heels, lingerie, sauna) and those related to parts of the body (armpit , feet, fat, thin, blond, dark-skinned). The list of fetishes (which are technically called paraphilias) already classified is immense and fun. Visit.
Is your relationship boring? Access this list, read the weirdness on it. If something interests you, how about searching Google for the fetish in question. You can discover things about yourself that you never dreamed of. But the big problem is: you think you have to spice up the relationship, that everything is falling into the same thing. And your boyfriend? Does he think the same? What if he has a fetish much more bizarre than yours and doesn't even know it? Are you going to poke the jaguar with a short stick? What if what he likes is exactly what you abhor, or the opposite? and then you discover that – sexually – you have nothing in common.
On the internet, a lot of what you find on websites doesn't talk about the word that I hear most in any real fetish environment, which is FUN, FUN, FUN!! In plain English, a fetish really has to be FUN. You have to enjoy and play legend!!! If you feel like a ridiculous queer in a fetish that belongs to your boyfriend and you are doing it just to please him, STOP NOW!! Go, do it, try it once, at most two or three times. You didn't like it, forget it!! The fetish wasn't made for you. Fetish is associated with pleasure and fun – even if it involves pain and humiliation. Each one on their own journey. Are you going to eat poop? Eat with pleasure. Are you going to wear lingerie and heels? Use leeenda and proud. Do you like transex? May it be the most beautiful doll that will hit 700ml of silicone on your back when she eats you. Auntie Lindinalva only asks for one thing. Don't get in the way. Don't go on a leather date just wearing a leather bracelet. Respect the taste and fun of others. Don't want to spend? Borrow, rent, find a way. Fetish has no middle ground. When you discover your… Woohoo is your element. You think: where was I that I didn't discover this before?!
If you've never felt this way, don't worry. One day you find your way… you just have to look for it. Here are some links just as a suggestion. Play them in the late afternoon of a rainy Sunday. And I'm not even going to say what each one is about. Go there and check it out for yourself!!!
http://www.fetish.com
http://www.gaydemon.com/directory/fetish_and_BDSM/
http://www.gayarabs.blogspot.com/
http://www.tagame.org
http://www.ichikawado.net/gallery_E.html
http://www.messy-guys.com/pizza-gallery/pizza-gallery1.htm
http://www.divine-interventions.com
http://www.eroticarts.com/
http://www.jeffsmusclestudio.com/studio.html
http://www.hottlead.com/
