Everything has a good and a bad side, invariably. Being single is great, dating is great too. Each of the marital states – I hate that term – also has its bad side and we can only understand this when we go through such situations.
I've traveled alone, with friends and with a boyfriend. Traveling with your boyfriend is a delight for a shopping, gastronomic and cultural itinerary, while with friends it becomes a more fun trip, with games and sex from beginning to end and alone it can be a mix of both and the best thing is that you don't have to negotiate times and places with anyone.
When we travel alone but are dating? This is a new situation. You might even see a guy hitting on you at the club, but if the relationship is monogamous, you can't do anything other than smile. And if he comes to you and says he has a boyfriend, it needs to be said at the beginning, but if he doesn't have a boyfriend, what's the harm in taking him to the hotel?
When dating, we may be surprised at the airport. Without waiting, the husband can be there at arrivals waiting with flowers, chocolate or nothing at all, just his presence. He may have gone straight from after hours straight to the airport, but just thinking about and surprising his boyfriend is already worth mentioning.
He may not even know your flight number or company, if he really wants to book he finds out. Surprises like this don't happen with hookups, hookups or with someone who just wants to ride the hype of their boyfriend, in fact, even with a boyfriend it's not very common and whoever has been surprised like this is better to preserve the guy.
However, dissatisfaction is something that is in human DNA. You're never happy with anything and that's why you have to dare, go further, experiment to find out how important someone you surprise like that is and how much they are missed and that's where the danger lies, winning someone back is more complicated than conquering them.
When you already know the person's defects and qualities, entering into a relationship is an even slower process, as you need to analyze the situation carefully and assess whether or not you are willing to relive part of everything you are aiming for. Now, if there really is a desire to continue living a story that is good for you, conversation and dialogue are necessary, there is no point in jumping straight into sex.
